Jim was in his 60s. He’d spent years battling relational rejection & severe alcoholism. He reported to my office with “severe chest pain” in his body. The pain was causing some serious problems; he couldn’t sleep and couldn’t relax, and found it very difficult to function during the day. I prayed with him in the […]

WE’VE ALL BEEN VICTIMIZED This is a popular notion these days and it makes total sense. When we identify as an oppressed person who has undergone a tragedy or hardship it will often bring us attention. We may even receive a boost in social status and perhaps mobilize others to come to our defense. Victim culture rewards […]

“An obligation to feel can freeze feelings” Cs Lewis Stop waiting to feel something. Start before you feel. Your feelings are about as dependable as a burp. Though beautiful & massively important we need to tread carefully. What really drives you? What motivates you? Why are you reading this blog? Why are you following your […]